He (or she) who fails to plan, plans to fail. Everyone doesn't need to be informed of your plans. There will be naysayers and haters that will try to derail you, keep planning and keep the faith; eventually all your hard work will pay off. You may try a lot of things and fail. But these are learning lessons. Don't give up on your day dream. Some folks will have the best intentions by telling you what you SHOULD do with your life, but the path you take will be the one that God's set in motion for you. Keep plannin, keep trying, and keep the faith. Better days are ahead.